Fan Or Follower Of Jesus?

One of the most profound books I’ve ever read is Kyle Idleman’s, Not A Fan. His book first came out nearly fifteen years ago, during a season of my and Ann’s life when we most needed it. A decade later, we were blessed to sit under his teaching every Sunday morning, as we relocated to Louisville, Kentucky and became a part of the large church he pastors.

I thought being a fan of Jesus was a good thing

Kyle Idleman’s Not a Fan is a call to authentic discipleship, challenging readers to move beyond being mere admirers of Jesus to becoming fully committed followers. He argues that many people claim to be Christians but live as “fans” rather than devoted disciples. A “fan,” as Idleman defines it, is someone who admires Jesus from a distance, enjoys the benefits of Christianity, but avoids the sacrifices that true commitment requires. The book urges readers to examine their relationship with Christ and make a conscious decision to follow Him wholeheartedly.

Key Themes and Concepts

1. The Fan vs. The Follower
   Idleman differentiates between fans and followers. Fans are enthusiastic admirers of Jesus who may attend church, pray occasionally, and enjoy Christian teachings, but they avoid the cost of true discipleship. Followers, in contrast, are fully committed to Christ, willing to surrender everything for Him. The author illustrates this through biblical stories, modern examples, and personal anecdotes, emphasizing that Jesus desires total devotion, not partial commitment.
2. Defining the Relationship with Jesus
   A significant portion of the book revolves around the question: “Are you a fan or a follower?” Idleman encourages readers to take an honest look at their faith and evaluate whether they truly know Jesus or just know about Him. He compares this to a romantic relationship, where someone can claim love but fail to demonstrate real commitment. The author calls for a deep, personal relationship with Christ rather than a superficial affiliation.
3. Choosing Intimacy Over Knowledge
   Many people believe that knowing about Jesus—His teachings, miracles, and promises—is enough. Idleman argues that intellectual knowledge alone does not equate to genuine faith. Instead, true discipleship involves intimacy with Christ, a deep connection that transforms one’s life. This relationship requires constant communication, trust, and a willingness to obey God’s guidance.
4. The Call to Surrender
   Idleman highlights the cost of discipleship, reminding readers that following Jesus means surrendering personal desires, ambitions, and even relationships if they hinder one’s faith. He draws from Jesus’ teachings, such as in Luke 9:23, where Christ says, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” The book challenges the modern tendency to create a comfortable version of Christianity that avoids sacrifice and suffering.
5. Breaking Religious Complacency
   Many self-identified Christians settle into religious routines—attending church, giving offerings, and saying prayers—without genuine transformation. Idleman warns against this complacency and urges believers to examine their motives. He asks readers whether they are truly following Jesus or simply going through religious motions. Authentic faith, he argues, produces visible change in one’s character, priorities, and actions.
6. The Role of the Holy Spirit
   True discipleship is impossible without the power of the Holy Spirit. Idleman explains that fans often rely on their own strength to live moral lives, but followers depend on the Holy Spirit to guide and sustain them. The Spirit empowers believers to overcome sin, step out in faith, and grow spiritually.
7. Following Jesus in Every Area of Life
   Discipleship is not just about Sunday worship but about integrating faith into all aspects of life—work, relationships, finances, and personal struggles. Idleman challenges readers to submit every part of their lives to Christ’s authority. Following Jesus means prioritizing Him above comfort, social acceptance, and personal ambitions.
8. Living as a True Follower
   The final chapters focus on the transformation that comes with true discipleship. Idleman shares stories of people who moved from being fans to followers, emphasizing the joy and fulfillment found in complete surrender to Christ. He reassures readers that while following Jesus is costly, it leads to a deeper purpose and eternal rewards.

My thoughts

Not a Fan is a compelling wake-up call to believers who may be living a comfortable, half-hearted Christianity. Idleman’s central message is clear: Jesus does not want admirers; He wants fully committed disciples. The book challenges readers to examine their faith honestly and take steps toward a deeper, more intimate walk with Christ. Through relatable stories, biblical teachings, and thought-provoking questions, Idleman invites everyone to move beyond being a fan and become a true follower of Jesus. Each of our counselors at Life Training Christian Counseling is on their own journey to becoming a fully committed follower of Jesus Christ. Just contact us to schedule a Christian counseling session, and we will begin to walk with you as you become a follower of Jesus.