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You’re Approved Of

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The statement “You are highly valued” communicates to some individuals that they are loved and approved of. Even If Assured They’re Highly Valued, They Still Have Difficulty Believing They Are Loved Or Approved Of if you have difficulty comprehending how this statement could be so important to someone, then it’s apparent that you don’t have…
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I am in control

You’re Respected

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The statement “You are the leader” communicates to some individuals that their leadership is respected. Even If Assured They’re Respected, They Still Have Difficulty Letting Go Of Control if you have difficulty comprehending how this statement could be so important to someone, then it’s apparent that you don’t have this particular temperament type.  Often when…
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I am enough

You’re Enough

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The statement “You are competent” communicates to some individuals that they are seen as enough.   Even If Assured They’re Enough, They Still Have Difficulty Believing It if you have difficulty comprehending how this statement could be so important to someone, then it’s apparent that you don’t have this particular temperament type.  Often when we…
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Understanding Inborn Nature

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Every human being is made uniquely.  But that doesn’t necessarily mean what comprises each human being is that unique.  In a physical sense, we all have eyes.  Granted our eyes may be of different colors or shapes or sizes.  But nonetheless, we all have eyes.  Every human being is born with skin, albeit a broad…
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God doesn't waste our pain

God Turns Our Pain Into Purpose

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It’s become so easy to bemoan the imperfections of our lives, and especially our childhoods.  I hate to be a Debbie downer, but when I watch some of the competition shows on tv these days, I think some of the contestants get voted through, not because of their talent or voice or skill, but because…
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Forgive from the heart

Cancelling A Debt – Part 3

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Layers of Forgiveness True forgiveness occurs at three levels of our being that were affected by the hurt imposed by another human being:  Mind, Will, and Emotions. MIND:  “I choose to discipline my mind to no longer hold unforgiveness, resentment, or contempt agains the one who hurt me.” WILL:  “I choose to discipline my will…
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